Wednesday, December 24, 2008
Merry Christmas
Sunday, December 7, 2008
Holiday Shopping Deals and Promotions
Holiday shopping momentum is building and everyone is on the search for great deals and promotions. I have done a bit of searching around and have found a few promotions that may be of interest to you. I hope this makes shopping a bit easier for you, and leads you to the great deal you have been looking for! Just click on the links!
Do you have kids or Ipod lovers to buy for? How about an Apple gift card!
Beauty.Com offers a wide variety of beauty products and is offering awesome deals on free shipping. Lots of famous name brands for less!
Fragrance is always a holiday favorite, and FrangranceNet offers deep discounts and free shipping.
A variety of discounts are offered by 1800 Flowers. Great ideas for long distance gift giving.
More yummie treats from the Popcorn Factory and a discount to boot!
Vera Bradly bags and accessories are always a favorite. Not only are they offering free shipping, but discounts on discontinued patterns as well!
Tuesday, December 2, 2008
Sleepwear for Plus Sizes
Anyway......my good friends over at Wicking J Sleepwear introduced their fall/winter line of wicking sleepwear a couple of weeks ago. Of course their products are of excellent quality or else I wouldn't carry them at Lunar Radiance, but I wanted to mention that they have expanded their plus sizes! Because there was such demand for more plus, Wicking J. had added 4X, 5X and 6X to their inventory and I have added it to mine!
Both the Chelsea Wicking Pajamas and the Abigail Wicking Nightgown both come in a full range of sizes. So if you or someone you knows is in need of some relief from those nasty night sweats, but has been unable to find sleepwear because they are a plus size lady, please pass this information along to them. They will love you for it!
Have a great weekend!
Friday, November 28, 2008
Black Friday Sale on Wicking Sleepwear at Lunar Radiance!
Thursday, November 27, 2008
I hope all of you find something for which you can be thankful and enjoy a true day of Thanksgiving!
Wednesday, November 5, 2008
The Election is Over - Yeah!
My voting experience was uneventful. I must have picked a great time to cast my vote because the line was minimal. I had already made my decisions for the presidential and local elections so I didn't spend much time in the booth. It was pretty much in and out.
I have my reservations about the outcome. Maybe I am jaded, but I am hard pressed to believe that any one administration will be able to do what this one has promised, but I suppose one can always hope.
What are your thoughts, concerns and hopes? How was your voting experience....any problems or clear sailing? Did everyone in your house vote along the same line? What do you think about the media coverage? What will we all do now?
Wednesday, October 29, 2008
Have You Zazzled?
It is a marketplace with a host of greeting cards with matching postage, specialty Keds, posters, aprons, mugs and the list goes on and on. It is a pretty interesting place to visit for both shoppers and creators. It is similar to Cafe Press.
As an extension to my wicking sleepwear business, Lunar Radiance, I thought I would dabble over at Zazzle with a focus on Baby Boomer Divas. It's never too soon to start looking for a unique little something that's not too expensive for someone special.
So....grab a cup of coffee, CLICK HERE, and take a trip to Zazzle! Here is an example of a birthday card perfect for a boomer lady's birthday or a mug after a boomer girl's heart! These are a couple of my creations!
Tuesday, October 21, 2008
Online Shopping in a Bad Economy
Shopping online is cost effective, secure and easy. Even when it may be time to tighten our belts a bit, we still need to buy items. Women will continue to have night sweats and holiday shopping will still need to get done. So, why not look for the most cost and time efficient way to do so?
- I love being able to take my time and browse a "store" at my leisure no matter what the time day or night.
- I like having the ability to get answers to my questions regarding returns, colors, sizes etc. simply by "clicking" a link. I don't need to trudge through a store looking for someone to help me. If worse comes to worse, I just call the toll free number listed to have my question answered.
- My time is valuable, so shopping conveniently for me is a blessing, and given the cost of gas, I am all about saving money by not using my car to drive all over town.
- Prices are competitive online. Internet retailers know that it is EASY to do a price comparison. So in a bad economy when everyone is looking for a deal, you have a great opportunity to find one!
- Most reputable sites have testimonials from customers that give the shopper an idea of whether the product is all it supposed to be. Read them! I rarely stop fellow shoppers in a store to get their opinion, but I will always read a testimonial. I can pretty much insure that my hard earned money is being well spent. Isn't that something we all want?
- Hard to find items often can be found online. Wicking sleepwear is not easy to find in stores, but readily available on the internet. I recently found a certain type of briefcase for my husband on line that I was struggling to find in the real world.....reasonably priced too!
This past weekend, I was a bit of an internet shopping fiend. I went QVC wild. I watched the presentations, then jumped on my computer to order. I read the testimonials and picked up a couple of great deals. (All done while I was in my pajamas!)
Thursday, October 16, 2008
Perimenopause, Menopause and High Blood Pressure
I am hoping that some of my readers may be able to offer information. Any sites, links or concrete information would be appreciated. What do you know? Has high blood pressure been something you have experienced during your transition into perimenopause or menopause?
Sunday, October 12, 2008
Calling All Baby Boomers! Raise Your Vibration by Being Grateful
There was so much doom and gloom this week with the given worldwide economic situation. You pretty much had to live under a rock not to hear any of it. In addition, Americans are being bombarded with constant political ads, mostly negative. I for one have had my fill!''
I am choosing, for today, to step away from all of this negativity and raise my vibrational level by focusing on the people and things in my life for which I have to be grateful. Please join me and add to my list!
- I am grateful that my daughter is home from college for a four day visit.
- I am grateful that I had a household of healthy, happy college students last night, and got to make breakfast for them this morning.
- I am grateful that I am having my family over for a roast beef dinner today.
- I am grateful that I have roast beef and mashed potatoes to cook!
- I am grateful that it is such a beautiful fall day today.
- I am grateful that the Phillies are in the playoffs and playing today....Go Phillies!
C'mon.......What do you have to be grateful for? Spread the word! Let's attract something positive today!
Thursday, October 9, 2008
Congratulations to October's Birthday Club Winner
What does Meg have to say about her sleepwear from Lunar Radiance?
"I was greatly impressed at how comfortable the PJ's were, soft, moveable against the sheets, and how comfortable I was. I can say I really didn't fully realize how uncomfortable I was until wearing your PJ's. It just seemed to balance my temperature."
Meg decided that she would like to receive her 50% discount on one of our older styles, The Rochelle. Because it is a discontinued style, I asked her to select another item that would receive the 10% discount for this month. She picked one of her original favorites, The Colleen.
Our regular price, which is already discounted off of the msrp is $52.99, but in honor of Meg, The Colleen will be on sale for $47.70 for the month of October! Just click on the picture above to check it out.
You won't want to miss out on such a great value. So jump on it while supplies last. The Colleen is available in pink and sage green!
CLICK HERE to learn more about Lunar Radiance's birthday club. It's free and you don't have to buy a thing!
Thursday, October 2, 2008
Palin-Biden Debate
Wednesday, October 1, 2008
Baby Boomer Women...Celebrate Your Birthdays!
My Hiatus is Over and I Have Quit!
Sunday, August 31, 2008
Sunday Morning News Just for Us - Baby Boomers That Is!
So what happened this week that is interesting?
- Well, we can't overlook the selection of Sarah Palin. So much talk has been made of the "glass ceiling." I guess we will have to see just how far she can go. Whatever your political beliefs, there is no denying that her selection made for more excitement in this year's campaign.
- Women and baby boomers are becoming a driving force in video gaming. Who would think?? A new report from IBIS World claims that 38% of gamers in the US are women and 24% of them are over 50! What are your favorites? Click Here to read more....
- Perimenopause, the years leading up to the actual stopping of menses, which is menopause, can last from a few months to several years. Think this is where you are? Click Here to read more about signs and symptoms.
- How do you feel about yoga? A study from India is offering compelling evidence that yoga eases the physical and emotional symptoms associated with menopause. The women tracked in the study showed significant improvement with their hot flashes, concentration and memory. Click Here to read more.......
- Women are the primary financiers in many households, but a recent survey conducted by Prudential showed that although we are clear about our financial priorities, we experience what they call a "confidence gap." Click Here to read about "5 Simple Steps to Boost Your Financial Confidence."
Friday, August 29, 2008
WOW! McCain Surprises Everyone
Sarah Palin, Governor of Alaska and mother of five, has certainly put the spark back into McCain's campaign, and I must admit, has had me rivoted to my TV this morning as I am working. I was losing interest in this election. I really felt it was more of the same. Even last night as I watched Obama, who I think is a fabulous orator, I was not moved in his direction. There is a reason why I am undecided, but this morning I am at least excited again about this election. My mind is already reeling with the pros and cons, but I am eager to learn more about this woman and what she may possibly bring to the McCain ticket and to our country.
Wednesday, August 20, 2008
Should The Drinking Age Be Lowered?
I have both an 18 year old college freshman and a 21 year old college senior. My kids were not high school drinkers. I do know that my son drank off campus when he entered college....not something I supported but actively denounced. I hold my breath regarding my daughter. They know my position, but the reality is there is little we can do as parents once they are there. I have to admit, that my initial reaction is no. I need to do more reading about the subject and data that both supports and refutes the idea.
Amethyst Initiative has a website where they promote their position and provide research which supports their position. If you are interested in visiting the site you can click here. What are your thoughts?
Sunday, August 17, 2008
Sunday Morning News Just for Us - Baby Boomer's That Is!
- Is it a myth that menopause puts a damper on libido? True, woman suffer from a host of uncomfortable symptoms including hotflashes and night sweats, but a recent survey dispels this myth and eases women's concerns regarding hormonal changes and changes in their sex life. Click here to read more and you can be the judge.
- Osteoporosis, which means porous bone, is a natural process that accelerates during menopause due to the decrease in the production of estrogen. It is often referred to as the silent disease because we can't see it nor feel its effects unless it is brought to our attention because of a broken bone. According to an article in the Times-Picayune, "almost 80 percent of the 661 people (older than 45) recently surveyed by the National Osteoporosis Foundation said they didn't think that the disease was a risk factor for broken bones, and 60 percent of women and 90 percent of men had not discussed their osteoporosis risk with their doctors." Click here to read more.....
- This week's topic at my other blog, Not Fit to Pick is the relationship between mothers and daughters. Although Not Fit to Pick usually deals with romantic relationships, this week's topic is inspired by my reflections after sending my last child, my daughter off to her freshman year in college. Click here to read more......
- Taking care of aging parents is something that many of my friends are dealing with right now. If you find yourself in this position, you will want to check out the Baby Boomers Retirement Club. This organization provides solutions for boomers caring for aging parents including online forums, senior care service locators, a senior and over 55 community search, and free pharmacy prescription cards. Click here to read more....
- Job hunting baby boomers face new challenges and they need to step up to the challenge. Bob Moos, from the Dallas Morning News takes a look at what boomers need to do to "brush up on modern ways to find work, interview and even update their image." Click here to read more....
- Lunar Radiance has introduced a new wicking nightgown to their wicking sleepwear line to help you fight those nasty night sweats! You can "Slumber in Sleeveless," pictured above, with this newest nightgown made by Wildbleu. Sale price is $45.99.
Have a great week everyone.
Sunday, August 10, 2008
Time Passes Too Quickly for This Baby Boomer Woman!
I can't believe that it is already August 9th. To me that signals that I will be heading back to my full time teaching job soon....3 weeks and counting! It also means that it 3 days I will be sending off my youngest to college for the first time. My daughter, my baby, will be making her own transition and I am again facing another....I will be an empty nester! It is so bitter sweet. This is what I have been preparing her for, so why does it feel so sad?
Saturday, August 9, 2008
A Friendly Approach to Quitting Smoking
Dr. Sally, as she is know, is a Breakthrough Coach, and hypnotherapist who has a Ph.D. in Spiritual Counseling. Because the habit of smoking is not only a physical addiction, but a psychological one as well, Dr. Sally addresses the psychological area through a series of videos focusing on hypnosis, EFT (emotional freedom techniques) and NLP (neurolinguistic programming).
This is a new launch for her, so I have not received mine yet, but I am anxious and hopeful. I have spent hundreds of dollars in the past on patches and gum, so for me to invest $97 in my health seems like a great deal. And.....since I spend $6/day on cigarettes I figure I will recoup my money within 3 weeks.
If you are interested in reading more just click the link Stop Smoking With Dr Sally. There is a full explanation of the program. Here's to good health!!
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Tuesday, August 5, 2008
Pajama Lady Appears on Growing Bolder Radio
- "Unlike other sites, we're not here to convince you that the best is yet to come. You already know that. We're here to tell the stories of those who are leading by example. We believe that's all the convincing anyone will need. Unlike other active lifestyle communities, you don't have to be 50+ to hang with us. What fun is that? We're building an intergenerational community that's a reflection of the society we envision -- one of inclusion. That's why our site is not about age. It's about attitude; an attitude that's as powerful at 20 as it is at 60. So plug in. Get connected. In our community, you have the power."
Growing Bolder has forums, blogs, radio, tv and so much more. It is like one stop shopping for baby boomers. I was thrilled to be asked to interview with them and I totally enjoyed it! Pay a visit to their site....you won't be disappointed.
Sunday, August 3, 2008
Sunday Morning News Just for Us (Boomers That Is!)
- This week's topic over at Not Fit to Pick is "Romance in the Workplace." It is becoming more common for people to find love at work. After all, they work closely together, have tons in common and spend a lot of time together. Sometimes it works, but what happens when it doesn't? Have you or someone you know had this experience? How did it turn out? What lessons were learned? Click here to read more!
- Have you thought of trying hypnosis to treat your menopausal symptoms? The subconscious mind is a powerful thing. It has been reported that people under hypnosis have even undergone surgery without anesthesia. So, how about using it to alleviate the physical symptoms of menopause. Curious? Click here to read more.
- Vision changes with age there is no doubt about it. Haven't you noticed that your arm just isn't long enough anymore? It has been found that the risk for macular degeneration, an age related eye condition, increases in those who have a diet with foods that have a high glycemic index. This would be a diet filled with refined carbs. Click here to read more from Natural News.
- Wondering just how much you will collect from Social Security when you retire? Social Security has just released a new tool to help baby boomers calculate their estimated benefits. I tried it and it is a breeze. Click here to read an article in the Chicago Tribune that will give you all of the details.
Have a great week everyone. Have a thought or comment about one of the topics? Post It!
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Thursday, July 31, 2008
Baby Boomer Women...Don't You Love Something For Free?
You can receive a FREE membership to the National Association of Baby Boomer Women! The National Association of Baby Boomer Women is the only association devoted to addressing issues concerning 38 million of the healthiest, wealthiest, and best educated generation of women to ever hit midlife, baby boomer women. This is a $75 value!
All you need to do is be one of the first 10 women to order one of our awesome wicking nightgowns or pajama sets, at Lunar Radiance, in the month of August. That's it!! I will contact Dotsie Bregel, the founder of NABBW and she will take care of the rest!
There are lots of perks to being a member of the NABBW
Two FREE magazines for one year: One year subscription to me* magazine and Grand magazine. me* is for those of us over age 40 who may not be a size two with a picture perfect life! Grand is the premiere magazine for grandparents.
Access to the NABBW Resource Center packed with Tele-Conferences to keep you informed on the latest personal and professional issues pertaining to baby boomer women. You can listen to them live, while online, or print them and read at your convenience.
MEMBER DISCOUNTS on goods and services, including:30% OFF natural skin care and beauty products, 20% off silver jewelry, 15% OFF http://www.1800flowers.com/, 20% DISCOUNTED Web Design by NABBW's Web designer, discounts with the largest cruise retailer, Cruise One.
Total access and participation in the forums at Boomer Women Speak
Click the NABBW Link to Get More Info About the Association Now!
Click Here to Visit Lunar Radiance
Monday, July 28, 2008
I Just Love Blogging
Hope you get some time to give it a look. Maybe you have a story or two and some lessons to share! Not Fit to Pick Make sure to check out both pages!
Saturday, July 26, 2008
What Would You Do Differently?
How many times have you said or thought "If only I knew then what I know now?" With my impending empty nest, I have been thrown into a bit of reflection. I suppose that this is a common occurence for many baby boomers as they face a change in circumstance.
If you did have the benefit of all of the wordly wisdom you have accumulated over the last 20 or so years, what if anything would you do differently?
**Ditch those painful relationships sooner than you did?
**Choose a different career?
**Foster better relationships with your parents?
**Prepare more for retirement?
**Have more children?
**Get a degree or some form of higher education?
**Save more?
**Spend more?
**Have more fun?
**Move to a different city?
**Get divorced?
**Stay married?
Or....maybe you wouldn't change anything. Maybe we are the wonderful people we are today because we are the sum and total of all of our experiences both good and bad. What do you think?
Wednesday, July 23, 2008
Menopause and Insomnia - What About Melatonin?
Now, it's perimenopause/menopause and a night of solid, blissful sleep alludes me. Frequently women in transition awake several times a night. We can thank our ovaries for that. They stop producing as much estrogen as they used to and we are thrown into hormonal swings that can make us want to howl like coyotes during the day, and leave us watching the clock in the middle of the night.
Melatonin is another issue. It is a natural hormone produced by the pineal gland that promotes sleep. The pineal gland turns off during the day when it is light, and turns on at night. Melatonin is produced in greater levels when we are young, but production slows down as we age. It is thought that this may be another reason why we have difficulty sleeping as we get older.
Synthetic melatonin is produced, but because it is not categorized as a drug, it does not need FDA approval. In addition, studies concerning the effects and benefits of synthetic melatonin are somewhat inconclusive. Personally, I am always hesitant about taking any type of medication or supplements. So, I am seeking feedback for myself and for others who may be thinking about this.
If you have tried melatonin, what have been your experiences? Have you used it occasionally or on a regular basis? Any side effects? Did it work?
Sunday, July 20, 2008
Another Thing to Make Life Easier for the Baby Boomer Woman!
Greeting Card Universe provides the largest, most unique and varied selection of greeting cards from a multitude of talented artists. Here you will find cards that you never would see at a store on every topic imaginable! Buy in bulk or one at a time. They will even mail them for you! Just click on the little cart below and explore the multitudes. Warning!!! Give yourself some time.....there are so many from which to choose!
Saturday, July 19, 2008
How Are Hot Flashes Like Volcanic Eruptions?
Why the mini earth science lesson? Well, while trying to describe to my husband what I was feeling on a much more regular basis than ever before, this was the only analogy that I could come up with. "She's gonna blow," is becoming a common refrain in my house. I feel like a volcano!
Some volcanic eruptions are explosive and some are not.....just like my hot flashes. Sometimes I just heat up and become uncomfortable. Some volcanic eruptions can be dangerous and deadly. Ok...I'm not going to die from my hot flashes, but they sure can be dangerous to those who are around me because I may whack them in the head with whatever is in my hands as I begin to fan myself and mop up my personal lava (sweat).
My volcano tends to lie more dormant during the day and really likes to make an appearance at night. (From what I've read, this is not uncommon.) Why do natural wonders seem more spectacular at night? It is at those times that I am ever so grateful for my wicking sleepwear. At least I don't have to get up and change my clothes and sheets when my lava spills.
The good news.....is there really good news? Yes! Unlike volcanic eruptions which can periodically rear their ugly heads for hundreds of years, my hot flashes and night sweats, and those of my fellow baby boomer women, will only hang around for a few! It just feels like forever.
Friday, July 11, 2008
Summer Vacation
Friday, July 4, 2008
Fast Facts About Menopause
Did you know that in addition to night sweats, hot flashes and the other host of glorious symptoms that accompany menopause, itchy skin is now one to add to the list? Hormonal swings, poor diet, dehydration of the skin and even smoking all contribute to the midlife itches. There are some steps we can take to help alleviate itching during menopause. To read more, CLICK HERE.
Finding it hard to concentrate? You're not going crazy. Difficulties with concentration during perimenopause and menopause are quite common. Sometimes you may even feel like you are in a fog. Our old friend estrogen, or should I say less of it, is the culprit. Never fear, there are some simple ways to cope with yet another menopausal nuisance. CLICK HERE to read more.
It goes without saying that symptoms may have other causes, so it is very important to always check with a physician to make sure there are no other underlying reasons for your symptoms.
Monday, June 30, 2008
Keeping Myself Honest and Motivated
Most baby boomers will agree that as we get older, the weight seems to creep up easier and is more difficult to get off. Gone are the days when we can lose a quick few for a special event. Losing weight, safely, takes time and a committment to a healthier way of life. Activity is key, as is everything in moderation.
I have taken up walking using Leslie Sansone's program. This works for me since I am not a gym person. I like the flexibility I have by working out at home and this walking program is structured just enough and gentle on my knees. Better yet, I am seeing results, and this keeps me going on the days when I really don't feel like exercising.
To keep me honest, I am recording my progress on a sweet little gadget from the ticker factory. OK...how crazy am I posting this for all the world to see, at the bottom of my blog.
This past weekend we celebrated my daughter's graduation. Too much cake and party food...but I got right back on the exercise train the next day. So...now I have confessed and my conscience is clear. (Must be my old Catholic school training coming out) The point is we can be fabulous and fifty, but it takes a commitment to activity and healthier choices. Is that really such a hard thing to do?
What's your favorite way to remain a lean, mean boomer machine?
Thursday, June 26, 2008
New Book Release-Worth More Than Rubies
I had to take a minute to toot the horn of a fellow Boomer Diva, Kathie M. Thomas and congratulate her on the launch of her new book!
"Worth More Than Rubies" is all about women who want to be home for their families, while still contributing to the household income. Kathie M. Thomas, a fellow baby boomer has been working at home for over 14 years. In that time she has been able to watch her five daughters grow up while also running a full time business at home. This book will inspire you and give you ideas to return home to work. What you will learn in "Worth More Than Rubies":
- The value of women working at home and being present for their families.
- The benefits both children and spouses receive from a mother home fulltime.
- Cost savings from being at home.
- Examples of connections you can make outside of the home so you don't feel all alone.
- A list of 64 different types of businesses that you can operate from home, .. and much much more!
Interested? Click Here to check it out at Amazon!
Tuesday, June 24, 2008
Go Green and Feel Beautiful
At Upurea, shoppers find the perfect skincare and bodycare for their skin type, organically sensual fragrances, remarkable haircare and styling products, and luxurious scents for the home. All of the products fall within one of three categories: "absolute pure", made with only 100% organic ingredients, "natural", made with the purest, most effective ingredients derived from the Earth; and "natural science", a blend of botanicals combined with non-toxic ingredients. These are definitely "green" beauty products at their finest and the company prides itself on being environmentally sound.
Imagine finishing your day with a relaxing shower or bath, then stepping into your wicking sleepwear. Sounds like the makings for a great night's sleep! To see what it is all about, CLICK HERE!
Saturday, June 14, 2008
Turning Desire Into Something More
Once I experienced the relief that was provided with this remarkable product I began to think....hey Eileen, what are your waiting for? Millions of baby boomer women are in the same boat. I had never heard of wicking sleepwear, and I am on the internet all the time; why not spread the word? So, from those simple questions, an obvious need and an innate desire, and hours of tireless research, my journey began.
Do I have a business background? The answer is no. I have been a teacher for 28 years, but I can read, listen and learn. Am I a computer guru? The answer is no. However, I can read, listen and learn. As I began the process I realized that there is a wealth of information, resources and support available as long as you are eager and willing to read, listen and learn and to put in the time.
Now, I am not naive enough to think that just because you have desire every idea can be turned into a lucrative business; there has to be a market. (That's an entire blog entry in itself) The steps in the process of turning an idea into a full fledged business are numerous and at times exhausting, but it can be done and the personal satisfaction is indescribable.
I love this business. I get excited when I get an email from someone who has reaped the benefits of the wicking sleepwear I carry and are finally sleeping better. I am gratified when a woman, who has found some information from my resources page or my newsletter, tells me that she found help or could relate in some way to what I had written. I become energized when I am networking with other baby boomer women who are engaged in thinking and creating. I feel an immense sense of pride when I look at my website. What was once notes and drawings on sheets of paper, is now up and running and evolving, changing and expanding.
It is true.....desire can be turned into something more. What is your passion?
Saturday, May 31, 2008
Sleeping and Menopause
In my surfing today, I came across an article that provided more validation of my plight and the plight of many other perimenopausal and menopausal women, and I wanted to share it with you. It is titled Getting a Good Night's Sleep is the Biggest Problem For Women Entering Menopause. It states that "Sleep disruption is the most common and severe symptom reported by middle-aged women when their periods change and they start moving into the menopause, according to a study in the April issue of the UK-based Journal of Clinical Nursing." Click Here to read more.
Looking for more articles pertaining to menopause, perimenopause and assorted issues important to Baby Boomers? Click Here!
Sunday, May 25, 2008
Ticker Factory
If you are like me and you need to physically scratch things off your "to do" list, then you may like this. Since I am in the process of some serious weight loss, I need to do everything I can to keep myself motivated. This site allowed me to create a cute way to chart my progress. Wow...going public really makes me accountable now!
You can do a count down for just about anything! Count down your days left before vacation; count down the days until you retire; chart your progress towards saving a certain amount of money....the possibilities go on and on. Give it a try!
Thursday, May 22, 2008
Wicking Sleepwear Extravaganza
All weekend beginning Saturday, May 24th thru Monday, May 26th we will be having a FREE SHIPPING extravaganza.
Throughout those days and for limited time periods, one product will be set to ship free. The product chosen for free shipping will change throughout the weekend! You could check in at 2 a.m. and find the Colleen wicking pajamas being offered with free shipping, or visit our store at dinner time and find the Dee Dee wicking nightgown has free shipping. It's kind of like free shipping roulette!
Want to say "Nightie, night" to night sweats? Just check in frequently throughout the holiday weekend and enjoy free shipping on one of your favorites!
Have a great Memorial Day weekend!
Sunday, May 18, 2008
Calling All Empty Nesters
I must admit, I am intrigued by the idea of having a life of my own again. It has been a long time since I have not had daily, hands on responsibility for my children. What will it be like to not have to cook or clean up after someone other than my husband and myself? What will it feel like to not have daily, physical contact with my daughter so that I know she is ok? As a mother, as many of you know, all you need to do is look at your child and you can tell if something is off. Now I will have to resort to a tone of voice or the words in an email to determine if things are on or off course. These questions have been keeping me awake as much as my night sweats did before I found wicking pajamas!
So I am looking to my readers for advice; not just for myself, but for other baby boomers as well, who are moving into the next phase.
- What should I/we expect over the next few months as we prepare?
- What did you find helpful as you made the switch from full time parent to part time parent?
- What was the best part and what was the worst part of becoming an empty nester?
- If you have already become an empty nester, you are an expert, please share your expertise!
Sunday, May 11, 2008
Happy Mother's Day My Boomer Friends
Wednesday, April 30, 2008
Great Dress....No Stress
This time I decided to approach my shopping trip with a new point of view. Instead of conjuring up a ton of negative chatter in my head I decided to just accept that my body is where it is right now. Instead of limiting myself to my usual "black because it makes me look thinner" I was open to pattern and color. I asked my best baby boomer girlfriend, who I trust to give me an honest, yet encouraging opinion, to go with me......and presto.....I found the perfect dress for the occasion! It has color, pattern and even a belt!
Sometimes we are so hard on ourselves. We see all of our flaws and forget to play up the good stuff. I still have a decent pair of legs, so I opted for something that highlights them. It felt good to take this different approach and it was quite freeing.
Now don't get me wrong.....I know that I will feel better both physically and mentally when I shed my unwanted pounds, but that doesn't mean that I have to participate in the self loathing that many of us so often do.
Try being kind and accepting of yourselves ladies. Look for the beauty that you have, play up your many assets and push out those negative messages. Let's all dress with less stress!
Sunday, April 27, 2008
Transitional Moments
When talking about how to celebrate her birthday, I requested that we do something one last time....have a sleepover. When she was young, I used to dread those sleepovers. I was always daunted by the prospects of keeping a gaggle of young girls occupied. This year I wanted it. Initially, my daughter thought it was "corny" but when she ran it by her girlfriends they were all for it.
Last night and this morning I found myself surrounded my 4 amazing young women. They are all bright, focused and full of anticipation of the upcoming events of prom, graduation and college. Three are future science majors and one is an impending children's book illustrator. Every once and a while I would stick my head in an overhear snippets of conversations.....the regular girl stuff and said a quick "thank you" to the universe for blessing me with a daughter who has remained innocent and enjoyed her youth. Neither she nor her friends have been spoiled by ugliness. Their faces are fresh and optimistic.
I graduated from high school 22 years ago, and although it didn't seem it at the time, options were limited. The possibilites available to our daughters seem endless to me, and it thrills me to see them embracing them.
Those of you who visit my blog regularly know of the trepidation I am experiencing over my pending "empty nest." I really wanted this pajama party as much for myself as for my daughter. I knew she would have fun, but I wanted to have one more night to watch the look on her face as she opened gifts, laughed and enjoyed being carefree.
This time, I looked upon the sleepover as one more opportunity for each of us to create a memory as we both prepare to move on, just like we should be.
Saturday, April 26, 2008
Looking for Hot Flashing Squirrel Lovers!
What started out with her love for squirrels has turned out to be more than just a hobby; it has become a passion that has taken her beyond the world of her furry/feathered friends.
I contacted her to find out where I could purchase some of her work and we had a chance to chat. She, too, is a baby boomer.....soon to be 50....(ok now I outed her age, hope she doesn't mind) who has turned something she always enjoyed doing, into something that not only brings her joy, but some green too! She is a fascinating, creative and talented woman. I can't wait to have her do some work for my wicking sleepwear business!
If It Ain't Broke...Don't Fix It!
Last night, my husband and I paid a visit to the Ritz Carlton in Center City, Philadelphia. We periodically stop by there to have a drink in their small bar called "The Vault" or sometimes just enjoy coffee or tea in their beautiful lobby. This place is filled with sentiment for us. We went there on our first date and subsequently had our wedding reception there as well. We have fabulous memories.
On a regular evening, it was not uncommon to find large groups of people having cocktails, sitting around chatting or enjoying the spectacular Chocolate Bar on Friday evenings. There was always a bustling crowd. The food was great as was the service. Located in a stately, historic, old bank building it was the perfect combination of gracious ambiance of the past and modern day convenience.
Last night, as we entered through the grand doors were were faced with tall white partitions which were erected to hide the view of "renovations." The main lobby is closed, but we ascended the main staircase to have a peek over the barrier. My first reaction was "YUCK." For some reason a decision has been made to convert this once comfortable, traditional, grand old man into something more hip and contemporary. From there we went to "The Vault." In the past, you would never be able to get a seat on a Friday night. There was no problem last night. There were six people total.....two at the bar and four crowded around one the the five, small square tables that have been shoved into a room that once served as the vault to the old bank.
My husband and I talked about it this morning with a sense of melancholy. Must all "old" traditions make way for the modern and urban? Does this renovation actually symbolize a greater message: old and traditional must make way for younger and newer? Since when is the familiar and comfortable such a bad thing? Just because something is old, doesn't mean it is broken.
I know that I am not privy to the $$ bottom line of the large corporation that runs this hotel. Most likely there is a rational explanation for these changes, but on for me it was a huge disappointment. As I said earlier, maybe it is just this baby boomer's impending milestone birthday at the root of this post, but it it ain't broke...don't fix it.
Sunday, April 20, 2008
Where Has Good Service Gone?
When I asked the young man if I could see one of my choices in action, he politely informed me that the model I was interested in was new and that the store did not have one on display. When I asked if we could open one since the store would have to put one up for display anyway he told me in no uncertain terms, "No."
OK.....well let's look at model #2. I asked for a demo. I really wanted to check out the quality of the print. As it turned out, the ink in my second choice was low, so the printer spit out a basically blank piece of paper.
"It's out of ink," responded the young man. NO KIDDING! The two of us just stood there looking at each other. After I suggested he replace the cartridge, he begrudgingly agreed. This took about another 10 minutes.
Then I asked to see it do the two sided print that he box boasted. He couldn't get it to work. He literally scratched his head, pulled up a chair and repeated the same steps over and over to no avail. When I offered the idea of reading the directions, that was a bit of a problem because it meant we needed to open another box to get them and he informed me that he doesn't usually read directions! After about 20 minutes, my husband and I left.
On to super store number two. No luck here! Plenty of workers on the floor, but no one who really seemed too interested in selling any printers. My help came in the form of a young man, whose pants were so low on his hips that he had to periodically stop to pull them up. When I asked if he had the model I was looking for, his mumbled response was "Did you see it?" He then made a cursory effort to find what I wanted, walked up and down the aisle literally slamming the lids of various printers, then told me "Looks like you're out a luck." The end!
Store number three......here I was actually lucky enough to find a man in his early 50's who was an actual HP representative, visiting the store. He was knowledgeable and genuinely interested in selling a printer. Finally......success.....so I thought. After a demo that put my mind at ease, there were none in stock!
I started to think that maybe the universe was trying to send me the message that I wasn't supposed to buy a printer, but I really needed to get one. So....back to store one. I didn't see the young man who worked with me the first time. I think he was so disturbed my his first encounter with the printer earlier, he must of had to take an early lunch or maybe a nap!
My husband put the cumbersome box in our cart, I made my purchase and we were off. Needless to say, I was one frustrated baby boomer woman!
- Why is good, friendly customer service so hard to find?
- What has happened to people really trying to help their customers?
- Why don't people who work at stores know their products?
- Does anyone really care about customer service anymore?
If I ran my business this way, I wouldn't sell a single pair of pajamas!
Sunday, April 6, 2008
Making Your Way Through Financing College
For most of their lives I was a single parent. While I always made a decent living, there was not much left over to save generously for college. Their dad, for various reasons will not be contributing to their college tuitions, so I am solely responsible for funding. I have to admit, this has started to cause me some sleepless nights.
There seems to be quite a maze of options available for financing, and I thought I would share a bit of what I have learned and I am hoping that others will add to this information as well.
OK....so how can we get our kids through college? What are our options? What do we, as parents or guardians need to do?
- Community College: These are two year schools which offer students a chance to take many of the basic liberal arts courses that are required in the first two years. Most of the time your student will live at home so this saves tons of money on dorms and meal plans. Tuition is very reasonable and if your student has done well academically in high school, they may even be able to have that tuition reduced. In New Jersey, the STARS program rewards students graduating in the top 20% of their class with free tuition! Many community colleges work closely with public 4 year colleges to make transferring after two years at community easy.
- FAFSA: This must be completed if your student is planning on applying for scholarships or student loans. This is done EVERY Year! The sooner you can complete this the better. It is highly recommended that it be done by the end of January. You can use the previous year's tax return and then go back and update once you have your current tax return completed. Check with individual colleges for deadlines. It is a bit time consuming and initially seems overwhelming. This application can be done online, so click here for a direct link! Note: Your expected family contribution is based on the household in which the child resides. So if you are remarried, the step parent's income is considered even if they are not helping pay for tuition!
- Scholarships: Private colleges and universities usually have a structure in place for awarding "free money" to students. Each school will have its own set of guidelines for these awards. So as you are looking at colleges take a close look at what your child needs to do to be eligible. Many times it is connected to class rank and SAT scores, so you need to be realistic. Think you have an athlete who will receive money for their talents? The NCAA has a boatload of rules and regulations for this too! Only Division One and Division Two schools can award athletic scholarships, but there are academic requirements. Click Here to find out more about the qualifiers and talk to your child's high school counselor! There are also a multitude of small, some quirky scholarships available, but you and your child will have to dig and read. FASTWEB is one such website where you can register for information and apply for independent scholarships.
- Grants: These are need based awards. After you fill out the FAFSA and your expected family contribution is calculated your child may be eligible to receive a grant. This is money that does not have to be repaid.
- Student Loans: The Stafford Loan is available for students to take. Repayment does not begin until after graduation. Again the FAFSA must be completed and your child needs to apply through his/her college. This can all be done online and colleges are usually good about helping you through the process. Click Here to find out how much your student can borrow each year and for more information on the Stafford.
- Parent Loans: PLUS-Federal Parent Loan for Undergraduate Students. These are low-cost education loans for parents at a fixed interest rate (currently 8.5%) Repayment starts shortly after disbursement and requires a credit check. There is also an "origination fee." You can do this through your selected college.
- Monthly Payment Plans: Some colleges will offer interest free installment plans. My daughter's college will allow me to decide how much of her tuition I would like to pay over a ten month period and deduct this from my account monthly.
These are just some of the options available that I have found. Believe me, I am learning as I go and by no means claim to be an expert. Use the financial aid office at your college to help you with all of this, and read as much as you can to help yourself become familiar. If any of you have helpful information or tips that you have found, please share!!!
Sunday, March 23, 2008
Happy Easter-Happy Spring
Friday, March 21, 2008
Mothers, Daughters and Empty Nesting
My daughter and I are now at a transition in our relationship. She is about to graduate from high school and will leave for college in August. This past week, she left for her senior class trip to Florida. When I dropped her off at school early Sunday morning I watched her as she excitedly pulled her suitcase away from the car to embark on her journey and I cried. Although I have been thinking about her impending departure this August, this brief trip really brought it home for me. Soon, she will be off on her own to a certain degree and I am filled with such mixed emotions. Is this what it will feel like to be an "empty nester?" Have I done my job well? Will we still be able to enjoy the closeness and the bond that we have forged with each other?
I talked about this with my girlfriends this week. Some of them have have already made this transition and offered advice. They tell me that this is a time of new exploration for myself. My husband and I will have the freedom to do things without constraint. I will have more time to grow my fledgling wicking sleepwear business. I will now will have time for me! However, I am still feeling a bit shaky.
My daughter returned home at 1:15 a.m. on Wednesday. Although tired, she was eager to talk and we did....until 3 when I had to close my eyes so that I could get up for work at 6. She was bubbling with stories and anecdotes. Yesterday she bounded into the house with her pictures of her trip. Again, we sat together, looked at each and she recounted exactly where she was and what was happening in each. As she talked, I just watched her. She is so beautiful, full of life and eagerly anticipating the changes ahead of her. She is blossoming into a beautiful young woman and yes....she still wants to share it with me.
The worries I had 18 years ago are faded, but I must admit that this time for me is bittersweet.
Sunday, March 16, 2008
The Wisdom of Mothers
Saturday, March 8, 2008
Color Is In For Spring
Friday, March 7, 2008
A Boomer Ha Ha
A man and woman had been married for more than 60 years. They had shared everything. They had talked about everything. They had kept no secrets from each other, except that the little old woman had a shoe box in the top of her closet that she had cautioned her husband never to open or ask her about.
For all of these years, he had never thought about the box, but one day the little old woman got very sick and the doctor said she would not recover. In trying to sort out their affairs, the little old man took down the shoe box and took it to his wife's bedside. She agreed that it was time that he should know what was in the box.
When he opened it, he found two crocheted dolls and a stack of money totaling $95,000. He asked her about the contents. "When we were to be married," she said, "my grandmother told me the secret of a happy marriage was to never argue. She told me that if I ever got angry with you, I should just keep quiet and crochet a doll."
The little old man was so moved, he had to fight back tears. Only two precious dolls were in the box. She had only been angry with him two times in all those years of living and loving. He almost burst with happiness."Honey," he said, "that explains the doll, but what about all of this money? Where did it come from?""Oh," she said, "that's the money I made from selling the dolls."
A Prayer.......Dear Lord, I pray for Wisdom to understand my man; Love to forgive him; And Patience for his moods; Because Lord, if I pray for Strength, I'll beat him to death, because I don't know how to crochet.
Thank you and have a great day!